TOL... BASAHIN NYO!!!

IT HURTS YET SO TRUE JUST REALIZE IT....

Don't we all wish something "so good" could be
forever? Don't we all hope that happiness is
there to stay?

There comes a time in our lives when we chance
upon someone "so nice" and "almost perfect" and
we just find ourselves getting so intensely
attracted to that person (sometimes without even
realizing it). This feeling soon become a part
of
our everyday lives and eventually guzzles our
thoughts and actions to the extent that we
tagged
it as one of those "too good to be true" things.

The sad part there is when we begin to realize
that,this particular person feels totally
nothing
but friendship. A "thing" that would be forever
a "thing" nothing more, nothing less... just a
thing! You're just a friend, and that's the
fact!
Then in our desperate attempt to get closer (or
at least be noticed), our efforts are still
futile and we end up sorry for ourselves.

One person said, never ever let your heart run
your life, as much as you can, always be
sensible
and let your mind speak for itself. Try to
listen
not merely on what your feelings is invoking on
you as a person but more importantly listen to
reason as well.

Letting go of someone doesn't necessarily mean
you
have to stop loving, it only means that you
allow
that person to find his own happiness without
expecting him to come back. Letting go is not
just setting the other person free (in the real
sense of it), but it is also setting yourself
free from all animosity, revulsion,and
resentment
that was long kept in your heart. You have to
let
go because the bitterness often puts away
the strengths and weakens the littlest hope,
making our lives more miserable than ever.
Worst,
presenting yourself as the "most affected one"
sets the nastiest impression of all time--whatta
a loser!

The trick there is...always remember that if you
lose someone today, it means that someone better
is coming tomorrow.

If you lose love that doesn't mean that you
failed in love...right? Just regard it as
another
mismatch of heaven! Well, you can cry of course,
or whine or shout(growl even) if you have to,
but
make sure that after those outbursts you have
washed away the hurt and the bitterness that the
past has left with you (easy said than done I
know!).

We can all survive with just beautiful memories
of the past but real peace and happiness come
only with open acceptance of what reality is
today. You really don'thave to forget someone
you
love ('cause it's hard). What we need to learn
is
how to accept the verdict ofreality without
being
bitter or sorry for what we have become. I
think
it's better that we give off that dedication and
love to someone more deserving. Hmmm..."Who
could
it be" is the next interesting
question to ponder.

-Let go of yesterday and love will find its way
back to you.-
And when it does, pray hard that it
may be the love that will stay and last a
lifetime.




yeah!!! sunset and sunrise of another day! =)
(meaning: letting go and welcoming a new day 4 u)