Imagine this. In your hand is a very
precious creation, so fragile, so valuable that
if you
keep on holding, it would either stay or fall
apart.
But you loved this creature so much, so
much that letting it go would be like letting go
of your life as well.
So much that sometimes you wished it would be
there forever.
So much that you tend to be selfish at times so
as you could make it stay for as long as you
like.
Don't we all wish something "so good" could be
forever?
Don't we all hope that happiness is there to
stay?
There comes a time in our lives when we
chance upon someone "so nice" and "almost
perfect" and we just find ourselves getting so
intensely attracted to that person (sometimes
without even realizing it).
This feeling soon become a part of our everyday
lives and eventually guzzles our thoughts and
actions to the extent that we tagged it as one
of
those "too good to be true" thing.
The sad part there is when we begin to realize
that, this particular person feels totally
nothing but friendship.
A "thing" that would be forever, a "thing"
nothing more, nothing less...just a thing!
You're just a friend, And that's the fact!
Then in our desperate attempt to get
closer (or at least Be noticed), our efforts are
still futile and we end up sorry for ourselves.
One person said, never ever let your heart run
your life, as much as you can, always be
sensible and let your mind speak for itself.
Try to listen not merely on what your feelings
is
invoking on you as a person but more importantly
listen to reason as well.
Letting go of someone doesn't necessarily mean
you have to stop loving, it only means that you
allow that person to find his own happiness
without expecting him to come back.
Letting go is not just setting the other person
free (in the real sense of it), but it is also
setting yourself free from all animosity,
revulsion, and resentment that was long kept in
your heart.
You have to let go because the bitterness often
puts away the strengths and weakens the littlest
hope, making our lives more miserable than ever.
Worst, presenting yourself as the "most affected
one" sets the nastiest impression of all time--
whatta a loser! The trick there is...always
remember that 'if you lose someone today, it
means that someone better is coming tomorrow.'
If you lose love that doesn't mean that you
failed in love...right?
Just regard it as another mismatch of heaven!
Well, you can cry of course, or whine
or shout (growl even) if you have to, but make
sure that after those outbursts you have washed
away the hurt and the bitterness that the past
Has left with you (easy said than done I know!).
We can all survive with just beautiful memories
of the past but real peace and happiness come
only with open acceptance of what reality is
today.
You really don't have to forget someone
you love ('cause it's hard).
What we need to learn is how to accept the
verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry
for what we have become.
I think it's better that we give off that
dedication and love to someone more deserving.
Hmmm..."Who could it be" is the next
interesting question to ponder.
Let go of yesterday and love will find its
wayback to you.
And when it does, pray hard that it may be the
love that will stay and last a lifetime.
now, don't you agree with this?? it's so true =)
